10 Reasons Why The Girl Who Had Her Heart Broken Will Make The Best Girlfriend
We’ve all been through bad breakups and bad relationships. Sometimes, when we meet someone who recently went through one, it seems like they’re not ready to move on. While this may be the case, with some time, you will realize that they make the best partners.
Everyone needs time to heal, but once the healing process has ended, the girl who had her heart broken will be so much stronger. She survived a tough time, and now she wants to live her life because she knows how precious her time is.
You’ll learn everything about her, including her new capacity for love. Now that she’s been broken, her love will be different from others. Here’s 10 reasons why a girl who’s been broken before will make the best partner.
10. She’s been in pain before, so she won’t willingly put you through it
She’s dealt with lying, narcissistic guys before, and it’s put her through a lot of pain. She knows what it feels like to be strung along and lied to when it comes to feelings. She’ll make sure she never does this to anyone else.
Don’t be surprised if she proceeds with caution. She will fall for you, but until she knows what your true feelings are, she’ll keep quiet to protect herself. When she’s comfortable with you, and you make your feelings known, you both will find all the happiness you’re looking for.
9. She’s forgiving of your past mistakes
She’s had a rough past when it comes to relationships, and she won’t want to relive that pain. In that same capacity, she’s not going to make you bring up anything painful from your past either. It’s okay to be vulnerable around her because she won’t take advantage of your love.
Whatever your story is, she’s not going to let it affect how she feels about you. She’s had to deal with a lot of heartbreak, pain, and sadness so make sure you don’t become a source of that in her life.
8. She’ll never pretend to care simply for her own benefit
Her relationships after going through a bad breakup will always be genuine, and she’ll act with caution. She won’t pretend to care about you to get something out of you. She’ll make sure she’s only ever making you happy, and she’ll try and fix things if you aren’t.
She’s been used and burned, so she’s not looking to make someone else feel that way. She knows how painful it can be to be manipulated by someone whose feelings weren’t genuine. When she tells you she loves you, you’ll know she means it.
7. She likes you for you
Loving someone isn’t just about them being perfect. No one is perfect; people have flaws. When she really cares about someone, she will take them for all of their imperfections – the good, the bad, and the ugly.
She’ll never ask you to change only to benefit her. In fact, she will push you to be the best version of yourself and to make sure you are always happy with who you are. She’s felt less than herself before, so for the people she truly loves and cares for, she’ll go out of her way to make sure you know you’re loved.
6. She’ll be your rock
Because she’s been through hard times, she’ll know what it feels like when things get difficult for you. If you need to lean on her for support, go ahead and do it. She’s come out of her past pain stronger than ever, so don’t feel like you’re forcing her to take on an emotionally supportive role that she can’t handle.
She truly does care for you, so she’ll do whatever she can to help you feel like it’s going to be okay. She’s your partner which means not only is she a lover, but she’s a friend.
5. She’ll be the kindest person you’ve ever met
Her intentions are pure after everything she’s been through, so don’t take advantage of it too much. She wants to be sure you never feel the way she’s felt, so you don’t have to worry about harsh words coming from her. She’s going to get upset from time to time as everyone does, but she won’t want to be like the ones who have hurt her before.
She’ll always think twice about what she’s saying, so she doesn’t hurt you. Her goal is to make the people she cares about happy. She just wants to focus on the positive, so she’ll try to bring joy to every situation.
4. She can love deeper than you think
She’ll want her next relationship to be full of love and happiness without a shred of the bad treatment she received before. She won’t let the bad behavior and actions in her past relationship affect her ability to love you.
She’s at the point in life now where if things get bad in a relationship, she will leave before they get worse. She wants love, and even though her heart may be more sensitive now, she’s still looking for a love that will make her heart beat fast in a good way.
3. She won’t focus on the small things
Her problems in the past were big ones, and they crept into her mind all day: Is he going to leave me? What did I do wrong? How can I fix this? When she’s moved on, and she’s found someone else she doesn’t have to worry about these things with, she won’t let the little things get to her.
She’ll be a lot more easy-going when it comes to getting lost on the way to dinner, or being late for a friend’s party. She’s lost sleep over much worse, so she’ll take things with a grain of salt and save her worries for the bigger problems you two might face.
2. She won’t wallow
If she’s still fresh from a bad relationship, she’s going to need time. But once she’s moved on, she will have a new outlook on life. She won’t bring up her past relationship or compare you with her ex.
She now knows that she was treated unfairly and that someone who really cares about you won’t try to make you feel bad. She’s ready to move forward and have fun in a relationship with someone who has shown her that she matters.
1. She trusts you
As long as you’re not out to hurt her and you take your relationship seriously, she will trust you. She’s been protecting herself, and now that she’s found someone who cares for her as much as she cares for them, she’ll let her wall down and let you in on her world.
Be careful not to mess this up. She’s still going to be cautious, but just by being with you, she’s showing you that she trusts you not to break her heart. And thanks to the last guy she dated who broke her heart, she knows what she wants and what she doesn’t want in a relationship. Now you can be sure that what she wants is you.